Children's Behaviors

It is often uncomfortable to talk about children and their own sexual behaviors but early involvement and intervention in children’s sexuality and sexual behaviors is crucial. Children’s sexual behaviors are most often very different than adult’s sexual behaviors. Learn how to respond to children’s sexual behaviors so that every child is protected, supported and cared for.

Children’s Healthy Sexuality Development

Questions about what is normal sexual curiosity and experimentation in children’s behavior are common. When you understand what age-appropriate behavior is and practice healthy communication with children about sexual development, children are more protected from sexual abuse. We can help you find information about children’s behaviors, and guide you in how to include children’s behaviors in safety planning.

Warning Signs in Children’s Behavior

Possibly you’re concerned about a young child’s sexualized play with their toys or perhaps a child said something vague or confusing about a game with another child. Maybe someone saw children playing in ways that worry you or an older child’s behavior has raised alarm. Sometimes what starts out as innocent children’s play can evolve into something adults recognize as no longer safe. We help you get your questions answered so you can make a decision about when to step in.

Sexual behaviors between children often raise questions. It can be unsettling to notice warning signs or concerning sexual behaviors in children. It is not always easy to tell the difference between natural sexual curiosity in kids and potentially abusive behaviors. If a child’s language or behavior is concerning to you, they may need protection and/or help to manage their behavior. You can find the help you need to do that right here.

Children’s Sexually Harmful or Abusive Behaviors

Perhaps you have recently learned of a worrisome sexual interaction that occurred between two children – maybe two children you love or care about. Maybe your child has been harmed by another child in the community. Oftentimes parents feel at a loss as to how this could have happened and how they will re-establish safety in their families and among friends. You are not alone.

It is hard to consider that a child we love or care about may have sexually acted out or abused a child we also love. Maybe you want to reach out for help but are worried about what will happen – especially if you are the parent of the child who initiated the behavior. We are here to support you explore having these conversations and consider options for next steps.

Each child needs and deserves understanding and help to make sense of what has happened so they can heal and move forward. Here you can find ways to access those resources for healing and make a plan to prevent further harm, starting now.

We Can Help

From conversations with children about their bodies to speaking with other adults about children’s sexually harmful behaviors, we have tips, tools and guidance so that you can help children live safe and free from sex abuse.