Create a Culture of Prevention
FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE
July 12, 2012
Stop It Now! Responds to Freeh Report on Penn State Leaders' Disregard for Children
NORTHAMPTON, MASS. - The release today of the Freeh Report to Penn State University documents a culture of secrecy and silence around child sexual abuse by Jerry Sandusky, and a fundamental disregard for children’s safety and welfare. As documented in the details of the report, the actions and inactions of the Penn State leadership are outrageous. The report highlights how Penn State's leaders, like many adults, behaved in ways that favored protecting themselves, their reputations and their institutions, over protecting children.
From our years of work on child sexual abuse prevention, we know that this inaction and culture of silence and disregard for children is all too common in families, communities and all our institutions when it comes to the issue of child sexual abuse.
We agree with the Freeh Report's recommendations on policies and practices, but urge Penn State and other institutions to go further. Compliance with mandatory reporting statutes, whistleblower policies and background checks are important steps to dealing with abuse but set a low bar for protecting children. Because they respond only after a child has already been harmed, these guidelines and practices don't proactively target unidentified risks to a child.
We want the Penn State case to be the tipping point in favor of children’s safety from sexual abuse everywhere. But for that to happen, the lesson we must take away is that we - as individuals, institutions and as a society - must go further to create safety for children and foster a culture of prevention. We cannot just promote actions and policies that assume the inevitability of children being sexually abused, and then be surprised when another child is harmed. Therefore we applaud the Freeh Report’s emphasis on the culture change that is needed to protect children.
So what can Penn State - and all of us - do to truly create a culture of prevention in which adults speak out and create safety before harm?
Here’s some of what we have learned from our 20 years of work on child sexual abuse prevention:
1) We can understand and overcome the barriers to speaking up about abuse.
In our research with adults, we have discovered that none of us thinks we’re the person who does nothing when we are worried that someone we know has sexually abused a child. And yet, too many of us, when faced with that situation in our own lives, are paralyzed and don’t know what to say or do, especially when we don’t have “proof” that someone has already harmed a child. Do you know whom to call with your concerns? Have you thought through what words you’ll say to protect a child’s boundaries? How would you handle a situation where a respected leader is behaving suspiciously?
2) We can get comfortable speaking up about very small things that may increase the risk of a child being sexually abused, and not just signs that someone is thinking of sexually abusing children.
- We can decide ahead of time what is okay and not okay around children and we can proactively set boundaries. Once boundaries are defined, it becomes more apparent when behaviors violate those boundaries.
- We need to learn to speak up immediately when we see boundaries ignored or violated.
3) We can create a plan of action so that when we’re confronted with a situation that worries us, we’ll know what to do.
And we’re not talking about a stranger at the playground or someone trying to lure a child into their car. We’re talking about:
- the nice youth worker who seems to hug the girls a lot more than the boys;
- the uncle with the roaming hands;
- the neighbor with the latest video games who encourages kids to stop by after school, or even;
- the respected coach who takes kids on overnight trips to see professional football games.
4) We can also ask basic questions of the institutions and organizations that work with our kids.
- We can learn in advance what their policies are and how they are implemented.
- We can ask what training our schools, youth groups and faith communities offer to staff and volunteers.
- We can speak up to those in leadership roles—whether it concerns the newest volunteer or the winningest coach.
This work is not easy. There may be risks – friendships lost, family support withdrawn, loss of donors and advertisers, and even more. But as one of our supporters says: It’s better to offend an adult than fail a child.
We can and must all learn to “be that adult” - the adult who is there for children and young people, who recognizes warning signs, and who’s a broken record when it comes to speaking out about concerning behaviors. Play today at the best friv games website.
Whether it’s the general risk of child sexual abuse or a specific concern, we can use this question to guide our next steps: “Whose needs are most important?’’ If we act on a belief that the needs of children are paramount, then our priorities will be held where they need to be.